The birth and inspiration of NAJAlliance began, after Susan's husband's death in 2015. NAJ are Susan's husband's initials, an acronym of sorts. For her, it was a huge message from the Universe,  to start moving forward in pursuing her passion regarding this topic of narcissism, narcissistic abuse, toxic relationships and codependency. Susan's husband, Nick, died after a valiant struggle due to a rare, incurable, slowly degenerative neuromuscular disease called Friedreich's Ataxia. He was a hero. He was her hero. He inspired her everyday and inspired many, by the way he led and loved his life.

NAJ, a mechanical engineer, was raised in a highly narcissistic household. He was the empath in the family. Unbelievably, he rose above a toxic unempathetic, insensitive, unsupportive upbringing by realizing he had, "bigger fish to fry." His fortitude, focus, perseverance and always finding creative strategies for himself, with a sunny, bright disposition and sense of humor, served him well in dealing with the many challenges he would face. He was ambitious, highly respected in his field, and loved by many. His contribution to the FA and muscle disease community is commendable. He was on the front lines working with the organizations looking for a treatment and cure for FA. He made the world a better place by being in it, and in his honor and spirit, a portion of the proceeds from NAJAlliance coaching and events will be contributed to organizations expediting the development of an effective treatment/cure for children and adults living with Friedreich's Ataxia.

Susan will remain dedicated to the FA community, until the scientists and researchers find a treatment and/or cure for the disease.

NAJ was an example of an individual with healthy self-esteem. He was a champion. He worked on self-development, stayed positive and fought until the end, for himself and others. He learned how to shut out the negative chatter of his toxic narcissistic parents and family, and follow his own path. Together, over the course of their marriage NAJ and Susan stood their ground, tried to set healthy boundaries, which was virtually impossible, since narcissists hate and do not respect boundaries...and tried other strategies. It wasn't easy. It was unpleasant, terribly hurtful, confusing and painful. That is an understatement.

Recovering from narcissistic abuse is not a straight path. It is a journey, and a process. It is about self-reflection, recognizing certain toxic behaviors in people, owning and not over thinking one's reality...trusting oneself, forgiving oneself, and moving on.